Cry Wolf Part II

There will come a time in your life when you feel utterly and completely alone.  No prospects of rescue from the loneliness.

They say instinctively animals remember their way back home.  Maybe it's a sense of smell or place or memory.   We are more fragile.  In an instant our memories can become shadows.  The distance between ourselves and the ones we love can begin to seem insurmountable.  All some of us can do is to stay close to home and hope that we will not be forgotten.  But in the end, remembering is not entirely up to us, neither is coming home.

Cry Wolf

Commitment is complicated.  When times get a little hairy, we have to decide should we stay or should we go.  Animals have instincts about these things, fight or flight, but human relationships are more complex.  How do we know when to give up the fight?  

Faced with a choice between fleeing or fighting, sometimes even the strongest of us run.  Animal instincts serve animals well, but we're human and we make mistakes.  For the lone wolves among us, self-preservation is easy because they're not trying to preserve a relationship.  Unlike animals, most of us have emotions clouding our vision.  We want to look out not just for ourselves, but for each other.  Until we realize in the end, human or animal, we are all alone ans we will have to fight for ourselves.

Forever Young

 
There comes a point in our life when we're officially an adult.  Suddenly we're old enough to vote, drink and engage in other adult activities.  Suddenly people expect us to be responsible, serious and grown-up.  We get taller.  We get older, but do we ever really grow up?

In some ways we grow up.  We get married.  We have families.  We get divorced.  But for the most part we can still have the same problems that we did when we were 15.  No matter how much we grow taller, grow older, we are still forever stumbling, forever wondering...forever young. 

The Past

Life would be so good if we could just freeze moments in time.  The time when we were happy, when we knew we were loved, but we can't.  Instead we find ourselves retracing footsteps that may have washed away.  We fight to remember our connections even as time wipes our slate clean.  We strive to make new connections that we hope time will indulge.  When communication fails, words remain behind.  Proof that we're here, that we mattered, that someone cared.  In the end, the past may be all we have.

Patience

It's a hard thing - patience.  But when something means enough to you, whether you're waiting to regain your past or start your future, patience is critical.  So what, in your life, is worth waiting for?

They say patience is a virtue and like most virtues, we never now if we possess it until it's been tested.  If we're lucky, we have someone to take that test with us and if we can pass that test, if we can wait long enough, we just might find the reward greater than we ever expected.

The funny thing about waiting is it always seems the more we want something the longer we have to wait for it.  Deciding to wait out the long haul shouldn't be taken lightly, but it's an easier decision to live with than others.

 

Man

In the beginning God created the Heaven and the Earth, at least that's what they say.  He created the birds of the air and the beasts of the field and he looked at this creation and he saw that it was good.  And then God created man and it's been downhill ever since.  The story goes on to say that God created man in his own image but there's not much proof of that.  After all, God made the sun, the moon and the stars and all man makes is trouble...and when man finds himself in trouble, which is most of the time, he turns to something bigger than himself to love or fate or religion to make sense of it all.  Bitter?  No.  Confused?  When it comes to man, absofuckinglutely.  And man says they don't understand woman?

Regret: Past, Present, Future

Regret is a funny thing.  You try your best in life to avoid it but sometimes it's the hard things in life that teach us the most, which makes you wonder, if given a chance, how many of us would do things differently?

For some, regret is the very thing that helps us push past our fear and move into the future.  For others it's the thing that allows us to re-explore our past.  At its best regret can be the catalyst for new beginnings where anything and everything is still possible.

The Wizard of Oz

Movie magic.  There's something about sitting in a dark theater that lets you escape the reality of your own life and live in the fantasy of someone else's story.  What if the cameras were turned on you?  In the movie of your life do you like what you see? 

We all love to lose ourselves in a good movie.  When I was a girl I loved the Wizard of Oz especially the moment when Dorothy opens the door into that fantastic world.  But once Dorothy appreciated how bright and beautiful everything was, she realized she had a bit of a mess on her hands.  One of the classic examples of "be careful what you wish for".  Spend five minutes in a fantasy and you just might find yourself wishing your old life back.  We miss what's right in front of us when we're busy looking over the rainbow.  Sometimes it takes stepping into someone else's world to realize how much you love the life you have.  No matter how magical the movies are, at the end of the day there's no place like home. 

Dream a Little Dream

We all remember the bedtime stories of our childhood.  The shoe fits Cinderella.  The frog turns into a prince.  Sleeping Beauty is awakened with a kiss.  Once upon a time and then they lived happily ever after.  Fairy tales - the stories of dreams.  The problem with fairy tales is that they don't come true.  It's the other stories, the ones that begin with dark and stormy nights and end in the unspeakable.  It's the nightmares that always seem to be reality.  The person that invented the phrase "happily ever after" should have their ass kicked!

Once upon a time, happily ever after - the stories we tell are the stuff of dreams that don't come true.  Reality is much stormier, much murkier, much scarier.  Reality - it's so much more interesting than living happily ever after for it's the obstacle of hallucinations.